I didn't learn this in nursing school.
"You are not chasing 65 kg. You are chasing how 65 kg feels."
I'm an oncology nurse, with 20 years in clinical practice behind me. I've also lived through my own metabolic collapse — under the weight of caregiving, night shifts, motherhood, and stress that didn't take days off. At my heaviest I weighed 105 kg, and every plan I tried assumed a calm life I didn't have.
What finally worked wasn't more discipline. It was rebuilding capacity first — in the right order. That's the method this whole site teaches.
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